Thanks to everyone who commented here as well as sent me offline emails with their helpful suggestions for preventing (or minimizing!) the after school drama. We have tried a number of things and they appear to be working.
Today I arrived home from a business trip before he went to school (yes, took the crack of dawn flight so I could be home for the school drop off!). When I dropped him off, they were already in circle talking about what they were going to do today — and they were going to be discussing vegetables. He got out of my arms and started shouting “corn! corn!” — the boy loves his corn! He waved bye, blew me a kiss and went on about his day. I was pleased.
When I picked him up, they were outside playing in the playground. He came over to me, gave me a big hug, waved goodbye to his friends, gave his teachers a “Peace Out” (his new favorite saying thanks to his daddy) and we headed home.

Peace Out Big John! (Thanks for the napkins Aunt Kristi)
Once home, we read a bunch of books together on our reading chair, talked about his day, and what we were having for dinner. As I cooked, he played in the Tupperware cabinet (who needs toys?). We had a nice dinner, followed by a shower, more books, a little rocking and singing, and finally bedtime.

I'd like to blame the lack of organization on the kid but it would be a lie. As Kelly says, don't judge me.
I am breathing a sigh of relief for now. I know all the days won’t be like this but I feel a sense of accomplishment for all of us that our day turned out drama free!
2 responses so far ↓
Barbara Latham // August 26, 2009 at 8:52 pm |
Michelle,
Every Mom should get a star for a “Drama Free” Day!! So I’m sending you one!!
I, on the other hand, am Babbysitting this week with both of the grandkids. It was easier when I was younger!!
xo,
Barbara
Jennifer // August 26, 2009 at 10:48 pm |
Great news!! So glad you came back to a calm day with adorable Carter!